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“It is a myth that great sex comes from great techniques, great sex comes from partners that are open and willing to try new things, communicate openly and honestly and keep the fun aspect in the mix” Foreplay starts in the morning , women respond best to pre-heating, the morning is a perfect time to set a sexy tone for the day.
“Creating a feeling of anticipation goes a long way in the development of a strong healthy sex life” The idea here is to create a build-up to sex, “ send an email, leave a post-it-note hinting to a weekend of romance. Provocative looks or subtle touches at times when sex is not an option leaving your partner anticipating a very special experience as soon as the opportunity presents itself”
Supercharge your Interest and Arousal: Breathing together and eye gazing – People spend little time looking at their partner and feeling tender towards them. It is a difficult exercise at first, look into one another’s eyes, not speaking but showing your feelings through your eyes as you breathe in unison. Breathing deep from the belly. This exercise builds and strengthens the feeling of connection and safety with your partner.
Every interaction you have with your partner during the day is foreplay. Recognizing that your mood and tone transfer to your partner and ultimately into the intimacy of the relationship. Helping to manage one another’s stress by being a compassionate listener or helping with everyday chores will always set the tone for opportunity and intimacy.
My6Secrets.com found Ian Coburn, a comedian and author of “God is a Woman: Dating Disasters.” Unlike his standup routine, his six secrets are more about the responsibility, listening and planning to make the time in the bedroom more fun, relaxed and spontaneous.
FYI – Some women are able to bring on and initiate an orgasm by clenching their PC muscles when being stimulated. There are two styles of PC muscle exercises, i) just contracting the muscle and ii) using a weight to increase the resistance. These exercises can be done privately and effectively while driving, reading or watching TV.
There are two styles of PC muscle exercises, i) just contracting the muscle and ii) using a weight to increase the resistance. These exercises can be done privately and effectively while driving, reading or watching TV. Some people practice them at stop lights so they remember to do them on a daily basis.
There are 10 different types of orgasms woman are capable of experiencing. Now Im not suggesting this lead to a performance contest here, rather I want this information to be a validation of what some people have experienced. The majority involve no pregnancy risk which can be the most fun of all.
Men are capable of experiencing 8 different types of orgasms. Now Im not suggesting this lead to a performance contest here, rather I want this information to be a validation of what some people have experienced. The majority involve no pregnancy risk which can be the most fun of all.
Thinking your partner should KNOW what you want them to do is one of the most common sexual glitches couples regularly practice. Every person will react differently to various stimuli and without feedback from your partner. You will never know how to please them in the “Ultimate” sense.
Psychic Sex AKA thinking your partner should KNOW what you want them to do is one of the most common sexual glitches couples regularly practice. Every person will react differently to various stimuli and without feedback from your partner, you will never know how to please them in the Ultimate sense. Add to it that sometimes what worked two weeks ago isnt working now and that is often for women due to a change in their hormonal cycle and for either partner stress.
Have a conversation outside the bedroom, or preferred place, while you are vertical not horizontal about what you might like to, are dying to try with your partner. Why? Because this allows you to bring up what may be a sensitive subject without the pressure to have to try something. It also lets your most powerful sex organ, your brain get involved. Creativity knows no bounds.
When you are guiding in the act, use one word rather than a sentence to guide. Why? One word, softer is heard as direction, while a sentence, Oh I want it to be softer. is often heard as judgment. Talk about the one word suggestions during your out of the bedroom talk so your partner knows exactly what that one word is telling them. Here are some suggestions: slow, up, yes, softer, you get the picture.
For the verbally shy sometimes the best feedback is a change of breathing or a sound (unless you really do the moaning stay in your body and out of the film scenario) that indicates theyve hit the right place or used your preferred stroke/touch.Think of this as road map to pleasure. So a new, clearer, non-judgmental style of communication will do more for your sexual experience and connection than just about anything. And a willing partner will be motivated and uniquely wired to experience each sensation you create!
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