The My6Secrets.com team had the pleasure of interviewing Pat Davis, President of Passion Parties, LLC. Pat has been at the head of the corporation for the last 9 years. Passion Parties is North America’s largest and premier party planning company selling passion and intimate romance products. More than 1.2 million women attend Passion Parties annually which infers that Pat has some pretty good tips on how to keep a committed relationship passionate and fun!
“From the Stress- Out to the Make- Out”
1. Open Communication and Open Mind: “It is a myth that great sex comes from great techniques, great sex comes from partners that are open and willing to try new things, communicate openly and honestly and keep the fun aspect in the mix” Foreplay starts in the morning , women respond best to pre-heating, the morning is a perfect time to set a sexy tone for the day.
2. The Right Equipment for the Job: “ Studies indicate that 76% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, the right toy can keep the clitoris stimulated during intercourse and can often times provide an opportunity for the woman to have simultaneous orgasms with her man” “ Relax and enjoy it, it isn’t rocket science ! “ “ Adding fun stimulating accessories to intimacy opens up new way of enjoying one another”
3. It’s the Little Things that Count: “Finding creative ways to reconnect with your partner doesn’t mean elaborate it means thoughtful” “ Try a date night without spending the money , maybe a bottle of wine on the front lawn to watch the stars and talk.” “Leaving little reminders where you partner is certain to find them like notes or tokens that remind him\her of the two of you. Connecting with your partner like you did in the beginning is the goal”
4. Talk, Talk, Talk ! : The sexiest muscle in the body is the tongue, Pat suggests that while it is useful for many things in committed relationships, open honest communication – small talk – fun talk, sexy talk, funny talk, all add up to two people that enjoy spending time together. Talking about what you each enjoy most about sex with the other, or what you really enjoy during intimacy is key to long lasting healthy relationships.
5. The Big 5: Sound, Sight, Smell, Touch, and Taste. Pleasure always begins with heightened senses whether it be a wonderful meal or a wonderful night of sex with your lover. “Bring as many of these as possible into the bedroom” Vibrant , awakened senses are not only relaxing but bring sensuality to the forefront.
6. Discover and Nurture the Sexy YOU! : “ Being sexy has everything to do with how you feel and think, not how you look” “ We love our partner’s to act confident in the bedroom, that is a sexual go button for both men and women” “ Feeling sexy starts with pampering yourself and learning what turns you on first, a confident lover that can show their partner around their body is a total turn on “
